The Prophet redemptive gift often gets ridiculed for their black and white, principles prevail, die on the cross of truth approach to life. A
Prophet will do or believe something simply because it is right (or they think it is right), with no foreseeable benefit, and in fact, even in the face of great persecution and cost of relationship. But even though the Prophet may be prickly at times, there is something incredibly trustworthy and comforting about a Prophet who has their moral compass in the right place. It won’t move for nuthin’.
I admire them greatly for that.
The rest of us are generally more easily swayed by the influence of others, by our relationships, and by the opinions of those we consider important. The Prophet may have to work to maintain relationship, the rest of us have to work to maintain our bedrock of beliefs.
This topic has been in the forefront of my consciousness lately because of a recent discussion with someone. You know, not all revelations are nice to receive. Sometimes you see something grand and beautiful and you can hear heaven singing over this gem of a truth. Other times you see something rather dirty and dingy, some hidden piece of selfishness that smells as bad as rotten milk. Yet both can bring glorious freedom. Go figure.
In this particular case the person realized that relationship was the primary determining factor for the excellence of their performance. There was a low-end established threshold, but relationship was what determined how hard they would try, when they would invest deeper effort, and when they would stop. If the relationship began to level out and reach positive numbers, well, the focus on performance would quickly drop to whatever the established norm was in that area.
Perhaps this doesn’t sound all that strange. We often change our behavior because of someone else. A spouse may change their habits, a boyfriend may dress better, a teenager may get good grades so she can go to a party over the weekend, an employee may work to get a raise from his boss – these are all normal life occurrences. But just because they are normal doesn’t mean they are right, or anywhere near the best.
What about an internal compass of excellence?
For the particular person in question, this was a startling and horrifying realization, and gave some perspective on relationship difficulties they were having. The horrifying part was realizing just how much the performance hinged on relationship and what that said about their own internal standard. Yikes.
What is your internal compass of excellence? When a relationship starts to improve, do you let up on your improvements? It is not wrong to be inspired to change because it would benefit someone you love. But your change should maintain itself because it is something you believe in, not because it is simply a response to the pressure from outside.
I think this can be a particularly challenging dynamic for the two most relationship focused gifts, the Exhorter and the Mercy. For these two gifts, relationship is life. The Exhorter needs people, the Mercy needs a person. In either case, the standard can easily be dictated by the flux of relationship, and so naturally that the Exhorter or Mercy may not even realize they are doing it. If you are either of these two gifts, I would strongly encourage you to take an honest look at the reality of what drives your behavior.
The ultimate relationship with which we should be concerned is our relationship with God. But even aside from that, I wonder if we have something more to learn from how He designed the Prophet. A Prophet can be an atheist and will still find a compass in some perception of truth, distorted as it may be. The Prophet seems wired to find the eternal truth, tapping into the nature of God, not just the relationship with Him. Of course, it should be our deepest desire to please God, to strengthen our relationship in every way possible. But I think that even deeper still, we can resonate with the Truth and the Right of Who He is.
What is your compass?
Dare to ask.
Wow, this is an excellent hard hitting piece of truth that smacked me between the eyes. Thank-you this gives me something to work with.
I appreciated this word. I myself am RGP and this speaks deeply to me. Thanks for sharing. Blessings to you. Debra
Hello Megan,
I’m thinking the “compass” (Rom. 2:14-15) is the same for all people -and should be amplified with the presence of Holy Spirit with one’s spirit…but it’s how someone skews/mis- or re-interprets what the compass is telling them that gets them into trouble…
The prophet sees “North”, so he says “North” and moves “North” -while another relational gift may feel “North West” is close enough.
So, how are the other relational gifts encouraged to say and to move as the compass shows them? -in spite of the relationship and/or feelings in the situation…
Hello Anthony,
I agree with you in the sense that our perception of the truth and principles can be skewed by our woundedness or wrong belief systems or any breed of sin or defilement. So, there is a huge element of growth and maturity needed for all the gifts, even aside from the relational aspect. From my perspective, the challenge for the relational gifts like the Exhorter and Mercy is that they use the relationship as their compass. That spells trouble.
Ah…I got ya…
So, that’s gotta look like…
* an Exhorter polling the immediate group for majority consensus
* a Mercy asking for the individual opinion/feeling -even just asking to be told
what to do